Week 2 Popular Culture

One example that I could give is the movie "Nappily Ever After" on Netflix. This movies deeper understanding I believe would be how a middle aged woman named Violet, didn't get to experience the life she wanted to live as a child because she was always hidden behind her mothers shadow. She was only able to form a sense of negative identity because her mother told her how she "should" act and look. Later on in life as Violet grew in adulthood, even though she had moved out of her mothers house way before, she became paranoid with her everyday appearance and always had to seek for her mothers approval. Violet finally realized after many failed relationships, that her paranoia had taken control over her entire life. She finally had the will power to get away from everyone, and make choices for her own happiness.
I think this relates to forming a sense of negative identity like Erikson was stressing because Violet felt so inferior to her mother, that she always felt she needed to please her mother with a blessing of approval.

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